Stress

There is always a lot to do in the last few days running up to Christmas and it can feel like you can't get through things. Tensions can run high in a family household. But remember you can and you will have a smooth Christmas if you take back control. You can follow my hypnotherapy style techniques.

3 tips to keep Christmas running smoothly;

1. Run events of the next 2 days through in your mind with everyone getting along fine, everything wrapped and opened, food cooked perfectly.... Imagine it is the end of Boxing day, you are getting into bed having had a great time with everything having gone well. What your mind sees your mind delivers, this technique will help you get the positive outcome you are looking for.
2. Smile your way through the next 2 days as smiling creates positive brain chemicals which stops you from slipping into stressed feelings. You will enjoy Christmas more if you smile more.
3. Tell yourself 'You can and you will and you are organised, on time, getting everything done easily and efficiently' By firmly self-talking yourself into the positive you will find your mind can't slip into Christmas drama mode and you will enjoy a perfect 2 days.

Try to enjoy the festive season.

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How to find the positive in the Trump Presidency - coping and managing your feelings

1. He is engaging people in politics.
2. He is highlighting divides which needed to be addressed at some point anyway.
3. He is showing us that change can happen quickly when you put your mind to something.
4. He is highlighting the fact that governments need to work for everybody to avoid unrest.
5. He is living proof that if you believe in yourself enough you can get any job you want.

Good and Bad

When Trump leaves the Oval office the good bits of Trump will remain and the bad bits will be corrected. He will have been right on some things and wrong on others which is no different from any other Government.

Coping with Trump

The best way to cope with any challenge is to keep a positive focus. It can be difficult to see the way through something so try managing your daily worries by imagining them floating away like clouds moving in the sky. By visualising your problems passing on by, you will train your mind to find solutions and avoid being stuck in repetitive negative thought patterns.

Trump is a blip in the history of the world which should put things into perspective for you.

Managing your conversation

Anxiety builds up when people fear the bad in a situation rather than the good. 'What if it is a disaster?' instead of 'What if this situation works out okay?' Try changing your conversation with yourself to a more optimistic language which will prevent you from slipping into frustration.

Focus on your own life, making it the best it can be whilst sticking to your truth. Always be open to seeing situations from all sides allowing everyone to voice an opinion allows people to get things off their chest.  In the end, common sense will prevail. Get out of the black and white rigid thinking and get into the grey area where solutions can be found. You can turn anything into a positive with the correct mindset.

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Also, my book "Cut The Crap & Feel AMAZING" published by Hay House provides you with the knowledge and tools you need to take control of your life and ensure that it follows a more positive direction - work, relationships, health, finance, finding love and more.

How to let go of Brexit stress or other uncertainty you may be facing

Here are some tips to help you to be more optimistic about the future.

1) Say to yourself "Everything happening in my life is good for me. Everything happening at this moment is good for me. Everything happening is creating a great future." Visualise a wiggly string leading you through life helping you to find everything you need along the way.

2) Put any worries in your mind on to clouds then imagine the breeze blowing them away. Allow your feelings to pass as the clouds pass too. Repeat regularly.

3) Visualise a time ten years from now. You are looking back at what has been a wonderful ten years.  See yourself having a happy life enjoying work, financial security, hobbies, activities, family, and friends. Imagine things have worked out amazingly well.

Whatever your thoughts about Brexit, you may have found it stirred up uncomfortable feelings. It is important to manage those feelings rather than let them spiral into negative thinking. The above techniques will help you. I would also recommend you listen to my Release Everyday Stresses hypnosis recording which has messages to help you cope well with change. By dealing with stress it will help you to stop drinking alcohol to excess.

Also my hypnotherapy Money-Increase Your Wealth recording is great to help you to feel good about money so that you wake up relaxed with new ideas and the confidence to earn more.  If you believe Brexit will be great for you then it will. When people listen to this one they change their spending, saving and earning habits to be better off. I gave a copy to my window cleaner who came back 6 weeks later and charged me more. The recording had given him the confidence to put his prices up although it was a little cheeky to charge me more too! Actually, I was very proud of him and it was another proof that the recording works.

Retrain your mind with my hypnosis download "Money - Increase Your Wealth" to attract more wealth to you, use your money wisely, create success in the best way for you, progress your career, create a positive relationship with money, make the correct investment choices, release financial stress or worries. Three short tracks easy to fit into your busy schedule.

I am available for hypnotherapy phone appointments which cost £150 each, usually, 2-4 sessions are required. To book an appointment contact me through my website.

Chapter 11 of my book  ‘Cut the Crap and Feel AMAZING’ by Hay House, gives some great stress-busting techniques.